Wow what great responses, thank you everyone for taking the time to do that!
Paul those are some great ideas, An actually I have invested in my fitness this last year, I dropped 6 stone and gained muscle, it was actually doing that - that enabled me to apply for this job , its really physical, im walking about 17/18k steps a day and moving heavy stuff like paving slabs and bags of gravel a lot of the time, I could not have dreamed of doing that before so its very true. I actually sort of do another one and thats bulk buying special offers for my lunch.
I don't have the time to further invest in skills really, my work is so hard I go into low power mode the moment I get home, But I am enjoying it, and I think that enjoying your job is so important - I can see myself doing it long term even though its hardly above minimum wage. I just love being out in the van being my own boss. My partner is at home doing the self employed stuff, shes actually doing some of the other points so I think we are quite well covered overall.
Pete thats very true and its whats concerning me, prices are rising faster each year than I can earn, its as simple as that. But I hope with a decent deposit i can get somewhere, my parents could lend me a sum of cash, but not enough and I do not yet have the work history to be approved - , they are letting me live here rent free (just pay 50 a month towards some bills) that alone is going to make the difference of what I can save. essentialy my entire wage is saved and live from partners self employed earnings.
Cadmium - thank you I really appreciate the kind words, I am trying hard to get stuff done as I know its now or never really and I want to make sure im not a never person!
Auric I think thats a great plan, 50K seems a great deposit and goal - in 18 months I have a "help to save" plan maturing too so that will add 7k. I will go with that and get selling some of my other investments, whisky, watches ect...
Joseph, the 5% deposit I can easily do, the part I am struggling with is as far as i can see places only lend 5X salary, and our combined salaries are about 22k - giving a 110k mortgage tops - Im in Bournemouth , prices are pretty steep.. But who knows, maybe they will start lending more than 5x salaries - My lisa provider is skipton building society, I went for them for the cash lisa even though their interest is a bit lower than alternatives because they are also mortgage providers, and I hope it will raise our change of getting a mortgage if they can see how well we save the sizable deposit.
Sixgun, very true, it is much more common now! still embarrassing though, kenesis sounds interesting but really need to stay cash on this one.